Thank you for your reply divsys,
@divsys:
In order to get the VLAN solution working properly, you're going to need a VLAN capable switch of some kind.
Can a router with dd-wrt software opearte as a managed switch? or am i far from it?
Once you moved away from a "Single NIC" installation, your pfSense would have firewalls rules like a more traditional setup, WAN blocked and LAN allowing outgoing.
did "pfctl -d" isnt this supposed to drop all firewalls?
the USB NIC approach, they're pretty hit
I was hoping that the fact that i get the message on connection was a good sign, isn't it?
You're probably better off finding a reasonable VLAN switch and working forward from there.
Im probably better off buying a more appropriate pfsense machine, but the whole point was to utilize stuff laying around :)
thanks again