Update: Wifi calling seems to work with no outbound nat rules other than the default enabled, however I can only get it to actually use it when I put the phone in a faraday cage that blocks cell, or airplane mode. I don't know if this is something specific with my carrier, or my Pixel 8 pro software. I did test with and s21 and it didn't use it until I did the airplane mode and enable wifi thing. Not sure if it is preferring LTE instead of wifi because of how strong our LTE is in our area, or if this is a cause of a misconfigured fire wall. Still having a bit of a head scratcher at this one, especially because I went into settings and told it to prefer wifi over LTE, but who knows.