I actually found the problem I had ticked off Enable authentication of TLS packets. After I unchecked this, it worked.
Now my problem is a have an ipsec connection to the datacenter at work. I route 10.X.X.X and 172.X.X.X to that network (for certain ip addresses on my home LAN) and the rest of the traffic to the outside WAN. When I connect to the open vpn, it disrupts this. I have not figured out how to route the traffic properly. I did try to create a new interface and create a LAN rule, but that didn't work.