@phil.davis:
The bandwidthd issue is bug https://redmine.pfsense.org/issues/3986
If anyone can work out what is causing that interaction with PHP-FPM and even better, how to fix it, you will be a hero!
I would live without bandwidthd, and maybe your troubles will all og away.
Yeah I saw that last night, lots of error messages in the syslog, I thought I had everything working but the DHCP service tanking, not sure what the heck is going on. I could get on the web gui but restarting DHCP service didnt appear to be working, was just acting funky. Kind of like BandwidthD but something is not happy with my configuration, so I might uninstall most of the packages and just get back to the basics and see what that does, when things have been stable for so long kind of a bummer to have things not like they were….
I will be poking around when I get home and see if its still working...