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    • ?
      A Former User
      last edited by

      It's been a minute since I went down this road but a year or so ago just not being on spamhaus or proofpoint wasn't enough. So many professional offices (doctors/schools/etc) use packaged solutions that have, as best I can tell, whitelists for spam filtering. If you're not coming from a well known block of IP's you're toast.

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      • bingo600B
        bingo600 @A Former User
        last edited by bingo600

        @jwj said in email hosting:

        Problem is my dynamic ip from Spectrum is sh*t by definition...

        You do know you can request your ip to be removed from the Spamhaus PBL , even if it's "announced by isp as dynamic ?

        That solved like 95% of my issues

        Ahh . too late , you answered that

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        • ?
          A Former User @bingo600
          last edited by

          @bingo600 Thanks brother :)

          I do think in the end I will go back to some form of self-hosting. All on my own or some service like the Helm that will deal with all of setup for a fee...

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          • bingo600B
            bingo600
            last edited by bingo600

            So what is needed is a "Legal" smarthost mail forwarder , to route/relay your outbound mail through.

            And setup TLS šŸ‘®

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            • ?
              A Former User @bingo600
              last edited by A Former User

              @bingo600 That's what these guy s do:

              https://www.thehelm.com/

              They just need to get a block of IP's that are seen as blessed like google or micro$oft's servers.

              Better yet all these other services (bank!) could stop using email as a way to identify me. Then I wouldn't need email at all except for some edge cases.

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              • bingo600B
                bingo600 @A Former User
                last edited by

                @jwj

                So they sell you a HW box and a $99 subscription ?
                And you'll get a VPN w. an exit ip via their system ?

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                  A Former User @bingo600
                  last edited by A Former User

                  @bingo600 Yeah. Although I think the VPN is vaporware atm. You get email, carddav, caldav and nextcloud. I nice app (connects to your box via bluetooth) to admin the whole thing...

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                  • bingo600B
                    bingo600 @A Former User
                    last edited by

                    @jwj

                    Hmmm ... Not happy users
                    https://community.thehelm.com/t/email-security-in-individual-email-accounts/246

                    Are they just using Gmail ?
                    https://community.thehelm.com/t/gmail-outage-ongoing/279

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                    • ?
                      A Former User @bingo600
                      last edited by A Former User

                      @bingo600 The company has become something of a dumpster fire. People paid for devices over a year ago and have yet to receive anything.

                      Their community is a dumpster fire on top of a train wreck driven by idiots. Typical Helm users have brain damage from tin foil hats that are way too tight.

                      That thread is really about how people thought the bounced emails because of gmails meltdown were Helms problem not googles.

                      My opinion is the Helm is a good idea executed poorly. Too bad really...

                      On the other hand there is nothing they do you couldn't do yourself with the some persistence and the right skills.

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                      • kiokomanK
                        kiokoman LAYER 8 @A Former User
                        last edited by

                        @jwj
                        without a static ip you are screwed
                        i myself have searched all available isp on my country that could give me what i want, static ip was a must, do you have no alternative?

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                        we must focus on silencing this @guest character. we must make up lies and alter the copyrights !
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                          A Former User @kiokoman
                          last edited by

                          @kiokoman Not at the moment. Spectrum or AT&T. I'm moving later this year. I'll have a number of choices in the new place (NYC) including a community service that gives 1G symmetric service with static ipv4 and a static /48 prefix. I'm on the edge of my seat waiting for that :)

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                            A Former User
                            last edited by A Former User

                            As a follow on to this line of thinking.

                            If you self host things not email. Calendars, Contacts, File Sync/Sharing and the like do you open ports or keep it local and only accessible via VPN when not at home?

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                              mhab12
                              last edited by

                              I just migrated my gmail box to Proton Mail. So far so good. Good security. App works fine, web interface is better. Using a custom domain so don't expect to run into issues with sites not accepting protonmail.com or pm.me addresses. Not sure if you can get by with their free offering but PM might be an easy fix. Tutanota seems to be the other option in the same high security/privacy focused category.

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                              • bingo600B
                                bingo600 @A Former User
                                last edited by bingo600

                                @jwj said in email hosting:

                                As a follow on to this line of thinking.

                                If you self host things not email. Calendars, Contacts, File Sync/Sharing and the like do you open ports or keep it local and only accessible via VPN when not at home?

                                I'm not exposing to public.
                                All has to be done via OpenVPN

                                It can't be hard to connect , the wifey can do it wo. nagging. 😊

                                Btw: I have a friend that is happy w. proton mail too.

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                                • ?
                                  A Former User @bingo600
                                  last edited by

                                  @bingo600 Thanks! I appreciate the advice.

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                                  • GertjanG
                                    Gertjan @A Former User
                                    last edited by Gertjan

                                    @jwj said in email hosting:

                                    Just really good email hosting.

                                    Gandi, Google, whatever, forget about them. Go for the real thing, as it is free, used by everybody, and it delivers.

                                    Take your own dedicated server / VPS. Install postfix, add 'courier' or 'dovecot' for POPS and IMAPS support. postfix handles already SMTPS. Add your domains, add known certificates (LE comes in handy here).

                                    Add, for example, roundcube, for webmail access.

                                    Forget about GUI ways to handle postfix. Get to know the two files : main.cf and master.cf and your good. postfix is the most documented program on the Internet.
                                    Add some SPF, DKIM and DMARC facilities. Take care of your reverse and your good.

                                    Control incoming mail, control outgoing mail ( ! ), be patient and gmail, hotmail, etc etc (all of them) will accept your mails just fine.

                                    I switched to that "all myself" mail solution for several domain names a decade ago, and I never regretted it.

                                    True, it's not a free solution. The servers has to be rented, as the domain names.

                                    Hosting you own setup means you can try whatever you want : spam detection is an art.

                                    iPhones, Android devices, Office 365, Thunderbird, other mail clients, my setup works with everything.

                                    No "help me" PM's please. Use the forum, the community will thank you.
                                    Edit : and where are the logs ??

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                                    • bingo600B
                                      bingo600
                                      last edited by bingo600

                                      I'm still on sendmail 😊
                                      Never failed me.
                                      But i still think Stallman was on mushrooms when writing the macro language.

                                      Sendmail + dovecot + clamav & "spamhaus checks via sendmail"

                                      Edit:
                                      But i think i'd go w. GertJan's suggestion, if i had to start from scratch.

                                      Or if feeling brave & dockerized ... : https://mailcow.email/

                                      /Bingo

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                                      • ?
                                        A Former User
                                        last edited by

                                        Thanks for all the info. I'm a ways away from being able to fully self host email, dynamic IP... Proton mail may be an interim solution.

                                        I'll take on some lower hanging fruit and revisit self hosted email when it becomes a viable option. One step at a time, reducing the footprint of data scattered on various services. I do this knowing that the privacy issues must be viewed in a larger context. Worrying about where my Amazon emailed receipts live while ignoring the location beacon (Mobile Phone) in my pocket is to miss the point. Not to mention credit cards and facial recognition...

                                        Removing vendor lock-in is just as appealing as any other aspect of this... Signal was nice step in this direction, removing the dependency on Apple's FaceTime and Messages.

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                                        • DaddyGoD
                                          DaddyGo @A Former User
                                          last edited by

                                          @jwj said in email hosting:

                                          Proton mail may be an interim solution.

                                          Hi,

                                          If you’re in Europe and you’ve already switched to Signal āœ‹ , you might also appreciate this if you pay a little for it.
                                          https://tutanota.com

                                          It has long been reliable and usable.šŸ˜‰

                                          Cats bury it so they can't see it!
                                          (You know what I mean if you have a cat)

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                                          • ?
                                            A Former User @DaddyGo
                                            last edited by

                                            @daddygo Thank you. Paying is fine. Free is often the problem, yeah? It's never really free....

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