Upon looking at this further, I can see that the phase two entry I setup is not coming up as the rest of the tunnels are. I have verified, by turning on logging on the pass rule on the LAN interface, that my traffic is hitting the PFsense box and that the traffic is being passed.
What I can't find a way to see, is where that traffic goes. Why doesn't the phase two entry come up after matching that traffic. I am digging into the IPsec logs, but it's difficult to read. there are a few tunnels working already, so there is a bunch of stuff in there.