Hey thanks for taking the time.
I forgot to update.
Issue solved, problem was ISP modem got reset, or ISP came in and resetted it.
So the firewall was turned back "ON"
after logging back into the modem and changing it back to OFF, then everything worked, as predicted when playing with the pfsense in a test environment.
Long story short, to avoid further unexpected ISP management intrusion, I disabled all the factory and ISP default accounts, changed Admin passwords, create new account for myself, and …. to really avoid further modem woes....
Set the modem in bridge mode, and now I'm using pfsense for PPPOe as I was planning to do from the beginning, that being said, Now I need to build probably a few more pfsense boxes to go behind this box, for the network management stuff, since I was planning to do Fail Over, load balance 2 WAN using pfsense in 2 physical boxes, so if one physical machine dies, the over one keeps going.
I was contemplating running 2 VM but unsure if the lag in VMware might cause network delay or not. I've seen such delay elsewhere before with other Network Apps that are VMmachine sensitive.
Anyway, that's topic for another thread.