I found the solution as to how to bypass a vpn on the protonvpn [this is a real nologs vpn based in Switzerland] ln this page protonvpn.com/support/pfsense-vpn-setup/
Basically the idea is to go to the specific vlan , or if you have a single LAN and want to exclude an IP range or host from the vpn you create a rule in Firewall-->Rules for the VLAN/LAN and identify the interface (LAN or a specific VLAN) identify the source (host, alias, interface[vlan] etc.) go to Advanced and change the Gateway to WAN. Then go to Firewall-->NAT--Outbound and switch mode to auto save/apply and go back to Manual. It works. I tried setting my vlan to access the WAN directly, but that got me no connection outside my VLAN. I suspect that is because [ its somewhere in this massive trail of notes] that the settings for OpenVPN say something like "pull all connections" or something similar. Which seems to direct everything to the VPN. Anyway, although I am not connected to ProtonVPN in any way, I would recommend them for their veracity, clarity and support. And want to thank them for solving a problem that a whole trail of notes leading to 10 or more pages did not seem to answer.