after several more hours of this i have this working the way i required it.
my cameras and tv are running on the gateway wan.
all other devices are working through the nordvpn tunnel. this has been an absolute nightmare. i finally have a good backup to my cloud account of the console config backup…
i also feel along the way with the support tickets i have sent to them they have fixed several issues they were having with servers and speed. as of last night i am getting faster speeds than ever connected.
i haven't changed anything but with my pictures of the config its just working better.
i hope it stays this way.
i ended up canceling my subscription to NORDVPN> they could not give me the speeds they said were available on any of their servers. i have those speeds through a difference provider