Looks like buffer bloat. I would recommend the Traffic Shaping forum. You could try enabling FairQ on your WAN interface and check the box on the child queue to enable Codel. This works well enough for most people. For now it gets more complicated quickly beyond this, but soon™ it may be as easy as a few check boxes to fix buffer bloat.
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