This is what you need:
Memory Capacity: 4x 204-pin DDR3 SO-DIMM socket (Supports up to 64GB DDR3 ECC Un-Buffered memory)
Memory Type: 1600/1333MHz ECC DDR3 SDRAM, 204-pin gold-plated DIMMs
DIMM Sizes: 16GB, 8GB, 4GB, 2GB
Memory Voltage: 1.5 V, 1.35 V
So basically: ECC laptop RAM, standard stuff but with ECC. As posted by NogBadtheBad, even crucial has this stuff: http://eu.crucial.com/eur/en/compatible-upgrade-for/Supermicro/a1sri-2558f
Others have them too, i.e.:
Transcend TS256MSK72W6N
Kingston ValueRAM KVR13LSE9S8/4
SuperMicro also has a list of tested memory: (use tabs at the top for other module sizes) http://www.supermicro.nl/support/resources/memory/display.cfm?mspd=1.6&mtyp=65&id=19062770653AAC69ECAB308B0C1ED17C&prid=83767&type=DDR3%201.35V%20SODIMM&ecc=1®=0&fbd=0