Turns out I had missed yet another piece of the tutorial. It asked to set interface group membership to only unassigned tunnels and then says to apply the firewall rule to the individual interfaces not the WireGuard interface group. I had set them to not be in the group but then still set my allow all rule on the group and not the individual interface! Once I fixed that error everything seems to be talking as it should. Hopefully my stupidity helps someone else googling the same problem years from now.
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