@viragomann
Hi viragomann,
thank you very much for your time and investigation. Your answer was very important bringing me back to the correct path for debugging. The reason, why clients can't reach the internet was an inconsistent configuration of pfBlockNG between the two HA members. I've ignored erros like this:
/rc.filter_configure_sync: New alert found: Unresolvable source alias 'pfB_BinaryDefense_v4' for rule 'NAT Allow HTTPS_2_xxxxxxxx'
Dec 14 16:17:17 svrfw02 php-fpm[32037]: /rc.filter_configure_sync: New alert found: Unresolvable source alias 'pfB_DNSBLIP_v4' for rule 'NAT Allow HTTP_2_xxxxxxxx'
Dec 14 16:17:17 svrfw02 php-fpm[32037]: /rc.filter_configure_sync: New alert found: Unresolvable source alias 'pfB_DNSBLIP_v4' for rule 'NAT Allow HTTPS_2_xxxxxxxx'
Dec 14 16:17:18 svrfw02 php-fpm[32037]: /rc.filter_configure_sync: New alert found: There were error(s) loading the rules: /tmp/rules.debug:299: syntax error - The line in question reads [299]: rdr on lagg1.808 inet proto tcp from ! to 83.x.x.54 port 443 -> $SERVER_xxxxxxxx
After fixing this, switching between carps members works correctly.
Again, thank you for your assistance !!!!!