Well, I have connectivity between the two buildings. I found a 2 page instruction on the web, that really helped. Also, what made me think I wasn't seeing the buildings was the fact I coudn't ping either PFsense box. BUT, when I tried to ping devices such as my time clock in the remote building, If out that I could. I can also go to the remote site, and ping my servers in my building...
I'll shut the remote site down until it's needed in the event my netgear boxes puke on me.
Thanks for the guidance and help.