Well, i feel a tad sheepish, and assish, but it was my reinstall of windows8 that was causing the problem. I thought of that, but, 1-couldn't think why that would cause a tracert done by pfsense itself and all the other connected systems to go bad, and 2-could see no indicators of windows being set up differently, or anything that I could see that suggested some kind of 'footprint' of windows getting it's grubby fingers into the mix. I need to talk to timewarner about the erroneous traffic reporting, but such calls tend to make me want to kill myself, but ya gotta do …
Thanks for the suggestions guys, have a good one