Looks like I may need to reboot. the list of processes seems a little much.
I may have only tried the destroy command about 2 or 3 times.
My guess is something is stuck in a loop somewhere?
[2.6.0-RELEASE][admin@router.home]/etc: ps aux | grep tailscale
root 332 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:05 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 1459 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 1483 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 08:32 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 1640 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:05 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 2377 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 2739 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 09:13 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 3151 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:05 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 3514 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:30 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 3988 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:28 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 4758 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:32 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 5724 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 6369 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 08:32 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 6578 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:13 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 6616 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:28 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 7609 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:27 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 8226 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 8439 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:13 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 9122 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:27 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 9454 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 10249 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:30 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 10953 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:27 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 16651 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 17765 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 18741 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:28 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 18777 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 08:28 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 19586 0.0 0.0 12176 3316 - I 07:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 20855 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:28 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 22863 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:18 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 24330 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:18 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 25535 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:18 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 31587 0.0 0.0 12148 3312 - I 07:15 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 31851 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:02 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled stop
root 32144 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:02 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 33165 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:15 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 33275 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:13 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 33952 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:15 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 34299 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:13 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 35044 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:15 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 35438 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:13 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 40167 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:15 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 41351 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:15 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 41365 0.0 0.0 12148 3312 - I 09:18 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 42062 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:30 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 42243 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:15 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 44237 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 09:18 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 45377 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 45512 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 09:29 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 45888 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:18 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 47440 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:18 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 47454 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:30 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 48481 0.0 0.0 12176 3316 - I 09:29 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 50234 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:29 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 50809 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 51698 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 52545 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 08:28 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 55908 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:14 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 57269 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:14 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 58441 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:14 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 59393 0.0 0.0 12148 3312 - I 08:32 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 61972 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 08:32 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 63420 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:32 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 64526 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 08:32 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 64564 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:03 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 65798 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:03 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 67003 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:03 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 67562 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:29 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 68414 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:36 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 69018 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:29 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 69563 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:36 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 70343 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:29 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 70798 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:36 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 73828 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 09:18 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 74516 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:15 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 76435 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:08 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 77208 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 09:18 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 77769 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:08 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 77842 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:28 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 78364 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:15 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 78420 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 09:18 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 78970 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:08 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 78978 0.0 0.0 12148 3312 - I 07:04 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 79706 0.0 0.0 12148 3316 - I 07:04 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 80455 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:15 0:00.01 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 80524 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:04 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 81338 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:03 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 82027 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:04 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 82285 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:28 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 82826 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:03 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 84138 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:03 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 84356 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:28 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 89354 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 90592 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:30 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 90776 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:01 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled stop
root 91482 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:33 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 91957 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 07:30 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 92571 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 08:33 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled start
root 92588 0.0 0.0 12176 3320 - I 07:01 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled stop
root 93677 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 - D 08:33 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 99791 0.0 0.0 12148 3312 - I 07:30 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/pfsense_tailscaled restart
root 50333 0.0 0.0 11244 2912 0- T+ 09:01 0:00.00 ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 55295 0.0 0.0 12092 3296 0- T 08:30 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/tailscaled start
root 56764 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 0- T 08:30 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 89852 0.0 0.0 12092 3300 0- T 08:40 0:00.00 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/tailscaled start
root 90958 0.0 0.0 11244 2912 0- T 08:40 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 55752 0.0 0.0 11244 2912 1- T+ 09:30 0:00.00 ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 75568 0.0 0.0 11244 2912 1- D 09:23 0:00.00 ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 98473 0.0 0.0 12092 3296 1- T 09:20 0:00.01 /bin/sh /usr/local/etc/rc.d/tailscaled start
root 99930 0.0 0.0 11244 2908 1- T 09:20 0:00.00 /sbin/ifconfig tailscale0 destroy
root 69606 0.0 0.0 11244 2912 2- D+ 09:51 0:00.01 ifconfig tailscale0 destroy