@DavcoreTech
Looks like you may be running an older version of pfSense and/or Tailscale.
You might want to upgrade to latest version (1.78.1) on all clients, which may resolve some of the connection issues.
Although, Netgate has not updated the Tailscale package in some time, you can manually update
How to update to the latest Tailscale version?
You may also want to upgrade Windows 8.1, which MS officially stopped supporting on January 10, 2023