@moffl:
for your info.
Don't know what i am missing
Tried it no go. just set up a ipsec tunnel on 2 different computers over a completely different network and it is responding exactly the same can't receive email, can not download files, cannot remote. it may be my imagineation running away right now but it seems when you first start email program or download their is the first initial indtall then stops hope this helps
Are you sure routing is setup correctly back and forth? Besides that it somehow sounds like a mtu issue. Lower mtu's at both WANs (m0n0 and pfSense) to 1300. If that helps raise the values step by step until it breaks again and go back one step. I had a m0n0-pfSense tunnel from work to home for several month and was able to use my outlook at home connecting to the exchange server at the office without issues.
Oh, wait… "Routes are in place"??? You don't need static routes. Only setup the tunnels. The routing is determined by the local and remote LAN of the tunneldefinition.