Noticed a quirk. It seems that I was overrunning the default state table size. I've noticed it for a while but didn't think anything of it until I read this post http://forum.pfsense.org/index.php/topic,71.0.html. I have over 400 users here so I would assume based on what was posted there 10k States just isn't enough. This also correlates with the times that the connection "goes down", as it normally goes down during high traffic periods(noon/after dinner). I have reset the Max States to 1million. As the post above stated it was under System -> Advanced.
Thanks.
Back to waiting…
10K -> 1 million is a helluva jump. You might want to scale that back some…say to 100K or 200K? :) This thread might be useful to you http://marc.theaimsgroup.com/?l=pfsense-support&m=114771925530407&w=2
–Bill