@jbhowlesr:
So I added the rules from the links above and I'm finding intermittence in whether these services work or not. This is such a but pain.
This quote is probably the best way to end the post. I can't stop feeling I kicked a hornet's nest here.
In hindsight I think johnpoz answer was the better answer in a higher order of right and wrong.
It seems more and more home users are using PFSense and rightly so.
Regarding Default Deny, M.Ranum once wrote:"It takes dedication, thought, and understanding to implement a "Default Deny" policy, which is why it is so seldom done." This is especially true for a home environment.
Number 1 for any home user should be the manual. For a DD policy you must know Network basics, protocols and ports etc. If not you may drive yourself mad if your internet hungry kids don't get to you first.
Go back to the Default PFSense Lan rules and call it a day, no harm , no foul.
In my view if you are running Microsoft you have bigger problems anyway in your network. :o
sorry, don't shoot the messenger.
I noticed the "Feedback" post and debated to reply here or on that one. Since your subject line was succinct I wanted to make sure others of future searches were well aware of the possible issues.
I repeat Default Deny is not for everyone. If I sparked your interest, Great!
But on the forums you may be hard pressed to find someone to know what is running on your private network. DD policy requires intimate knowledge of what is running on your machines. Only you can figure that one out. Research before implementing and a good grasp of network protocol and basics is a must. I do not think there will ever be an easy button for this type of setup.
Sorry if I started you down a path you may not have wanted to travel. But, hey, you asked. ;)