@Mif:
Was there ever a result to that issue?
Yes, my wife's company changed their VPN Client software, while I was still trying to resolve it. ;D
You can check if it's the same issue, by running a packet trace. As I mentioned, mine broke when the Client sent out a UDP packet bigger than the MTU size, of 1500, which resulted in a fragmented packet. The server never responded to that packet.
There was also, on the same thread, a report that the em driver was possibly corrupting fragmented UDP packets. I was at the point, where my next trace, was to be with a different NIC, and hence different driver, to see if that conjecture was correct. But alas, the VPN Client was changed before I could do that.
Cheers.