@eihcet:
Lastly, has anyone purchased the PFSense book, is it mainly a hardcopy of the WIKI guides online or does it expand upon items like this?
The wiki guides aren't all that great, they were written by outside contributors. The multi-WAN coverage in the book is extensive, and written by the person who has done more of those setups than anyone (i.e. me ;D), it's far and away better than anything freely available.
@eihcet:
However, when it gets to the gateway section I can only select gateways from the drop down list, of which none are the right option and I can't manually type in a gateway address… My choices are:
Default
10.1.10.1
LoadBalancer
Wan1FailstoWan2
Wan2FailstoWan1
I've got it working now using a failover rule "WanXFailstoWanY". The guide makes it seem as though you can specify just the one gateway and if there is a failover it'll just block the traffic
The individual gateways as you have them configured are there, 10.1.10.1 would be your OPT WAN, and default is your WAN. If you pick one of those it will behave as you describe. If that gateway isn't right, your interface isn't configured right.