@jimp:
once they appear in the uverse gateway, you can flip a bit in the uverse router to disable the firewall on those IPs individually. It's just how the uverse router works, and I'm quite certain that's been covered elsewhere on the forum.
After the reset I was having some trouble getting the CARP interfaces to show up. Some forum member by name jimp had a bright idea to ping the VIPS and they would should up in the u-vserse gateway.
http://forum.pfsense.org/index.php/topic,31167.0.html
All looks well so far, as long as I learn then these little struggles are worth it. ;D