….. but i want to access the pfSense control's interface from wi-fi, i don't want every single IP address connected to my wi-fi to have access to it, but only the IP address leased to my personal laptop.
Maybe i will just try to grant access to "any" and then protect it with a password.
pfSense is always protected by a password.
Re-enforce the access by instructing the DHCP server on pfSense to give your device (laptop) a 'fixed lease (IP)'. Then, use this IP to allow access to the GUI, locking out the rest. All this happens on LAN, of course.
When you're conformable with it - and you'll be doing as I did: had a good laugh when you look at the images you posted above, try accessing the GUI pfSense from WAN.