@jeremyj-0 Unfortunately for me, setting it to CoDel didn't help at all.
I think we and many others have different environments, so it is hard to compare. I think I need to learn how to profile both system and network first. Because before I can solve it, I have to find out if it is something with software, hardware, or maybe my ISP is breaking everything. But each part needs different tools to investigate it properly. Also, I'm making it even harder by using proxmox.