@johnpoz:
That really wouldn't be very nice of your ISP to do if you ask me. The isp roll is to connect me to the internet, not decide which ports I may or may not want to use ;)
Is it possible your behind a nat? Is the ip on the wan interface of pfsense public, or private 10.x.x.x, 192.168.x.x, 172.16-31.x.x ? Do you have anything in front of your pfsense box other than just a plain jane modem.. Not something doing any sort of firewalling or nat, etc?
i know it isnt nice of them to block port 25, but it is common that most of them do (for residential).
for the rest of your questions, see below (or above, but it seems you missed it above)
did you read why i am using the service? that will answer your port 25 question.
did you see that i copy pasted that i can get port 21 to work but that i get an error when i try other ports?
did you see that i can open the standard rdp 3389 port but i get an error when i try other ports…85, 8585?
i know that we are all here for help, but come on….
isn't it assume that anyone willing to install a more advanced firewall for their home network would know if there was an additional piece of equipment that needed to be configured, as well?
thank you for the security tip, you obviously didnt read what i was doing with port 3389.
edit- also, my original post shows the confirmation messages i get for when a port is seen and not seen from the internet to my network. that should be another good indication…