Nope. It's not that.
I brought everything home, and just took delivery of an ALIX 2D0 (2 ethernet, 2miniPCI).
vr0 (ethernet0) is always set to LAN.
If WAN is set to vr1, I can set OPT1 or OPT2 to AP mode, bridge them to the WAN, and it works fine (although very slow, very much slower than m0n0wall).
If WAN is set to ath0 (wireless0), even though the LAN works fine, and even though I receive no error message about bridging something to a wireless WAN, the bridge essentially does not work. The problem seems to be that you can't bridge anything to a wireless WAN.
So right now, I have several SBCs with a half dozen radio cards and working repeater stations.
So, do I try a Linux-based solution instead?
It's either that or I'm going to need to spend several months fixing m0n0wall to do what I want. I'd likely do it as a branch.