@MeeleIkon:
From what I gleam from your post, you have a server that you want to access remotely however you have security concerns on having open ports. You wanted to use OpenVPN but it is blocked in your country. You tried to use IPsec as a replacement and it is not working.
I run all of my LAN Traffic through VPN client on Pfsense, except for one server that I route through WAN so it won't eat up bandwidth on the VPN connection. VPN use isn't illegal they just make it very hard to access, until recently ISP would only throttle OpenVPN traffic, now all OpenVPN traffic is being blocked. So I switched to using IPsec which I know doesn't allow for policy-based routing on pfsense currently. So I'm am looking for solutions to allow me to route LAN traffic over IPsec and keep the server on the WAN. I'm willing to buy new hardware if there is something out there at the enterprise level that will allow for this kind of thing. I didn't want to start blindly buying things, I hope I have made the picture a little clearer.
Thanks