i have learned that what i am looking for is called a utm (unified threat management)
i can not get a copy to play with for experimentation, and it looks like it is a standalone that will not play with sense OS
now, seeing as how this would be a total game changer and everyone would benefit from it, and everyone needs it
the #1) question is why do we not already have it
and 2) what do we have to do in order to get it
so this leads me to wonder if there is a plug in, or set of accumulative plug-ins available that i am not seeing
again after all this i want to keep a diligent focus on my end goal
i NEED to be able to watch traffic real time GUI, with a line of data classified how and what you chose to show. the ability to right click on it, stop the flow, and chose what type of restrictions to implement into the firewall for that specific address, or general domain as a incredible volume more effective, faster, and efficient that a CLI table modification.