Agree with @stephenw10 - there are few issues with just certain models of Intel cards, but overall they are pretty solid it. Chelsio support is also quite good for FreeBSD - which card are you using? Also, have a look at this link:
https://bsdrp.net/documentation/technical_docs/performance
Next time you see the interrupt storm messages occurring, try running "vmstat -i" from the command line to track down the culprit device (interface).
Hope this helps.