@bman212121:
Double NAT is always bad…. That's likely where the issues are coming into play. Turn of DHCP on your netgear router, and plug the OPT1 port from the pfsense into a lan port on your netgear instead. This will let the pfsense's DHCP server give your xbox and laptop an IP. You shouldn't need to do anything fancy for your xbox to get online. Just make sure that you have automatic outbound nat generation. It's under Firewall > NAT > Outbound. The xbox will be able to make the outbound connections which will let traffic flow back through the firewall on the ports it opens.
Thanks for the reply, I know about the double NAT. The problem is you can't use this wireless router to connect to OPT1 through one of it's lan ports. I have tried this multiple times and the router drops connection, bypasses its wireless security and falls back to from N to G routing. It's a terrible router as in features, but it all I have at the moment. NAT is turned off in the router and so is the SPI, so even though I am using the WAN port to connect to PfSense it's is at least working as a makeshift access point. I have been keeping my eyes open for an Open source firmware, but right now the firmware is only for Version 2 of the hardware and I have version 3. My other wireless systems in the house are all Cisco and running Tomato firmware. I needed an additional wireless for ym son and thought I would give Netgear a try, well you live and learn.
Thanks for your help.